Thanks for your input AJ,

I have been trying to GAL. It's just quite hard to do when all of a sudden after so many years I find myself a "single mother" more or less with all responsibilities dumped on me like that. I know I have to keep my cool and be strong, but I do have bad days when I feel down and fearful...

Glad to hear that you are managing well though...like I said before, putting theory into practice is the hard part in this.

Bomb: 4/2009
M28 T32 Sep8
Me: 53, H:57
S20,D17
D papers filed by H: 2013
H didn't follow up with divorce
I completely let go ever since