Allen, It is not as bad as I made it seem. She was attempting to get out of my vehicle we were parked close to the curb she did not know the curb was so close that she stepped out on to it and feel back into her seat. She started to laugh and I said "are you ok?" She said "yes" and then I said what was posted above. She continued to laugh.
Yup, you lucked out there. Can you see how she COULD have turned that comment on you and BLASTED you instead as being inconsiderate?
You are just LUCKY man, that in my opinion was a bad call... you SET yourself UP for her to HIT you again ... you are just lucky she didn't... you need to control what you say to her man...
I can see how that scenario COULD have turned right against you ...
YOU : Wanna try that again?
HER : So now I can't even walk properly? I am SO SORRY I dissappointed YOU!
Gets out of the car and STORMS OFF...
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She COULD have said that, and YOU invited it.. you dodged a BULLET there man. Do NOT give her ANY REASON to get defensive or feel under attack.
Originally Posted By: OfficerInNeed
Yes I changed the log in to the phone logs. No matter what every time she checks the logs. She has access to my phone I delete nothing but for some reason she is always looking for something that is not there and she gets to the point where she starts attacking me and our R. What I mean is...if she finds nothing it gets her more upset because she still thinks something should/was there and the result is her getting very irritated and telling me how bad she wants out the M even more so. I think the phone logs trigger memories.
I don't think you deleting stuff is helping your case at all... she needs to see you are being transparent about everything except your marital therapy exchanges (including this forum).
