I realize there's a huge amount of information and answers in these forums and I've read some of the posts. The problem is, 2 days ago my wife told me she no longer wanted to be married to me, didn't love me anymore and was ready to end our marriage. I can't hardly type this through the tears. I'm too upset do anymore research. I need some help! She's 41 and I'm 45. We have a 17yr old daughter and a 11yr old son. Sorry I haven't learned the abbreviations yet. She suggested that I move out when the kids go out of town to visit Grandma after schools is out for the summer. I know she's felt unhappy as we've suffered great financial hardship the last few years which has effected our life. She feels like we never do anything or have fun. In addition, I've been short-tempered with lack of consideration and compassion for my family. I've ordered books from this web site and am desperate to rekindle my marriage relationship as well as with my children. I need to keep my family togethyer. Please Help!!!