MLC Saga, contd...

[elfie]

Haven't had any contact with H for 11 days. The thing is that at some point I will have to contact him as there are practical things to be taken care of. By the way, speaking of practical things, H has completely abstained from any financial contribution towards house/son's expenses for at least 9 months now, initially claiming that he was waiting for delayed payments to him and later on he declared for the millionth time that he has been giving and giving for the last 25 years (as if I wasn't), and that after all, I am the one with the resources (meaning personal property)which I could sell in order to cover son's college expenses...unbelievable...

As a matter of fact he has conveniently unloaded every responsibility re house and kids on me, while he remains out of sight in his "sanctuary" as he calls his aptmt. Nice...

H was a model father before MLC. He would give his body and soul for his family. I can't recognize this man. So, this whole situation is very hard to handle, as I've been going through this all alone. I have no family for support and only a handful of friends who I can talk to. I have also kept the kids out of this as much as I could, (they know nothing about ow) because a)their R with father would be affected and b)I want to spare them the stress being away at school and such..

I understand that all of the above is an all too familiar MLC script but I can't help but feel short-circuited as to what to do.

Any advice?