SH: The idea of weekly meetings may not fly ta this point though, since he seems to perceive me as authoritative 'mommy-abuser' right now.


Keep that in the front of your mind all the time. I'm sorry to say that, but it's a very important observation on your part.

Also, you are probabaly correct that your "glowing" that your friends have noticed can only be good for you all the way around in your life.