SR, I think that the birthday thing would be mostly for your dd, not for your W. I don't think you want to give the impression that it's about your desire to celebrate her birthday...that would be pursuing.
Exactly, it's for DD and *I* know it but what if W thinks it's me trying to use DD as an excuse to be with her on her b.day? So I guess the question is, does the way it's worded make it sound like it's for DD only?
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again
