Honestly, what is wrong with Hs? How can he not remember that you said Easter and a stranger on the Internet remember it? I have never met you! LOL. He probably DOESN'T remember it. God knows why.
Your BF is right, but H would not be the first person to believe a pile of rot unfortunately.
I feel sorry for your son. Have your H comfort him. Maybe that will give him some perspective by proxy on your pain from last year.
I agree that sis topic has to be backburnered for now. Sorry you S is going through this. Must be tough to reexperience it with him. Let H do some!
If you REALLY think H enjoys IMing sis to get your goat, you have to stop giving him that thrill to help extinguish the reason behind that behavior. It's the one remaining power struggle? Why? Why is he in a control fight of shoving something in your face? If you're interpreting this correctly, ignoring it from him, sis, and parents might solve the whole thing within three months if they are all enjoying pushing your buttons for some reason.
