reconciliation after divorce?

[any chance?]

Yep, feeling quite down. W is a WAW who decided this marriage was a corpse 9 months ago, got involved in EA and PA briefly, but has not really put any effort into trying to put things back together again. Comments about me pursuing were correct, althougth I was just trying to be patient and understanding. I made the mistake of lying to her about past events, and now she is angry, and D is on the doorstep.

I am going to focus on GAL. I am going to tell her to go ahead with the D. Do I just put her out of my life from now on? I am hoping for reconciliation, but the hopes are getting fainter by the day. All this has happened way too fast.