Tell me something, how many times have you posted to people here, over and over again telling them what to do and how to act? How many times did you have to wait around UNTIL these posters could finally GET what you were saying? (dont lie, I have been reading you)
What we do here is give our knowledge, share our experiences and advise people that the best way we can. How and when they finally start to absorve what we are saying is not in our control. I am sorry, that's the way I see it and I see it all over the boards...
I agree with this. Saffie, help me out here -- what was it Corri used to say? "When you're not ready, you're not ready. And then you are." ??? Something like that.
Took me nearly TWO YEARS to finally "hear" that my wife was ripe to have an affair. To my credit, once I suspected I immediately began the necessary intel and then moved very swiftly and aggressively once I found out, but I was as stubborn as a mule for a long, LONG time leading up to that.
