Regardless of throwing in the "tempted" part, you did actually say this (versus just being "tempted") and for you to say that you "don't believe for a second" what I said is true is just downright rude and ignorant of you. Of course you are welcome to say whatever you want, it is a public forum. And of course you shouldn't stop posting here.
In other words, you would have preferred that I not say what was on my mind, because it could be seen as critical of your marriage, and that it is anything less than perfect? In spite of the fact that it's quite common, even in good marriages, that partners are not completely open about what they do by themselves? There's nothing terribly wrong about that in general.
Yet you seem to have no problem drawing the starkest of comparisons between the virtues of your husband in his current state, and me, by repeatedly throwing back in my face the very worst of what I have admitted, with the justification that it's fine to repeat endlessly because I have written it already. And so I'll do it again to myself to highlight my point:
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You - as per your own description of your life - have lived sexless in your marriage for a significant number of years, only getting some infrequent jollies on the side from women who you can quickly dash off from with no emotional bond, or from strippers or apparently at jack shacks. The rest of your sex life is entirely masterbation.
Not completely accurate, but close enough to not be worth arguing the details.
As for being right, it seems you insist that you are right, and that you consider me rude and insulting to even suggest anything you say might not be correct, that your marriage is very good (which is good!), but at the same time saying my marriage is sham, I'm rude, I'm ignorant, I dont' get it, that you can repeat stuff over and over again and I never get it.
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I am just tired of it, that's all. I got attacked by another poster on another thread totally unrelated to this one...and at this point,
If you see my statement as an attack on you, and you don't see your own words to me as at least being mildly insulting, then I'd have to insult you once again by suggesting you're a bit narcissistic. It's a hallmark of narcissism to be intolerant of almost any criticism, while feeling that negative comments about others, even if true, and especially if true, are justified.
I don't particularly mind your honesty in painting me as the complete negative opposite of your husband morally and sexually. I'm just pointing out that I doubt you'd be able to tolerate the same level of criticism.
