I did the L route, but, I am a professional and was scared to death of mediation. Of course, my fees are already in the tens of thousands of dollars. However, my L truly protected me and knew the law. It was worth it. I hear her talk about mediators all the time, and, although many will think 'of course they will bash them', she has told me many stories where people got burned really badly.

Will less complicated job histories, I DO think that mediation is the way to go. FIB


Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;