He really is behaving irresponsibly now, he wants every thing on his own terms including S.. IF he goes on monday, honestly I dont think any thing you communicate to him right now is actually gonna land in his brain.. perhaps leave it to the MC to explain its not acceptable behaviour.
Definitely 24/48 even longer as I can hear your seething from over here.. Honestly I dont think hes worth wasting your energy seething on, put that energy into getting well and looking after little S. OTOH H is digging his way into a deeper pit regarding any custody he may want, if he cant look after him because S needs it because your ill, well he shouldnt have the responsibilty the rest of time, we all have to look after our kids regardless of our own health.. I thought I was gonna have a peaceful weekend instead Im comforting a full grown man blubbing like a baby, but yes he is my baby still and probably always be and right now he needs his mum, so mum's plans go on the back burner as always..
Hope you both feel better soon, you both have had more than your fair share of bugs recently you both deserve some good health!
((((H4L))))) ((((S)))))
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