BILL - NEED YOUR HELP IF YOU'RE AROUND. PLEASE SEE MY THREAD IN NEWCOMERS - NEW YEAR NEW ME.
Gotta break and need your advice. I know you don't logon that much but I'm hoping you can shed some light. Or any others that are reading this. Thanks! Tootles.....
Life continues to be a challange in many ways, but my marriage and family life is solid. My wife and I are great partners, supporting each other and knowing so much better how to make our marriage work. And I greatly value the maturity and wisdom that last year forced upon me. I actually typed quite a bit of detail then deleted it because it was tedious minutiae. Suffice it to say that life used to get me down and that contributed to the breakdown in my marriage. Those things haven't gone away; what has changed is myself. My state of mind is healthier now.
{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}} - good thoughts to all of you out there -
Great to hear Bill!! THe amount of commitment the two of you have made is beyond admirable in my book I hope that one day my M will 'feel" as solid as your has become...I think the problem right now is more me though then H
Hugz to you and W Zoo
"If patience is worth anything, it must endure to the end of time. And a living faith will last in the midst of the blackest storm."
- Mahatma Gandhi
My H is in love with me again and my sitch has turned around completely! I took ideas from other successful Dbers and you were one of them. I crafted one heck of an "as if" attitude and a lot of it came from you. I decided, after reading one of your posts, to always remember that the happiness and love in my life comes from within me...not from someone else. I decided to show unconditional love and to make my home the most wonderful place in the universe for H. I took a cue from you and used scented oils...H loved it!
I am happy to say that my Valentine's Day was the best that I have ever had in my life! Knowing that there were others out there who have turned their sitch around, gave me courage and hope to persevere against tremendous odds (I even had OW in the mix).
Thanks Bill! You have touched peoples' lives in ways that you may never even know! I wish you and your family a wonderful and fulfilling life together!
Christine
I am the master of creating positive energy and love in my own environment. I am the source of love in my life. It starts with me! This energy radiates from me! It gives me strength, courage, wisdom and grace!
I actually typed quite a bit of detail then deleted it because it was tedious minutiae. Suffice it to say that life used to get me down and that contributed to the breakdown in my marriage. Those things haven't gone away; what has changed is myself. My state of mind is healthier now.
I hope that one day my M will 'feel" as solid as your has become...I think the problem right now is more me though then H 
