Going straight forward...antlers 6th thread.

[antlers]

I'm asking for help here.

I got this text from her last night about our kids...

"You are still emotionally and mentally abusive to them. You still get some sort
of sick satisfaction out of manipulating and controlling their little minds. You
have caused them more harm than good. They remember the way you treated all of
us when I was there and they will remember the way you treat them now. They are
smart kids and see you for the true person you are."


Our kids are cussing, not minding, and being mean. I know they need counseling. My daughter has kicked a hole in her wall over here when I told her 'no', my son has been suspended from school for fighting, and they both are getting in a lot of trouble at school. These kids were NEVER like this before. Their mother is using them as 'weapons' against me. When I take a privelege away from them because of their behavior (like those mentioned above), she let's them do whatever they want at her house. As a result, they are not wanting to come over to my house. It hurts bad!

I'd like to respond to her text. I'm asking for help here with that. And any other words of wisdom you folks could give me. Thank You. This is awful and painful.