so, i havent posted in a little while...working on my PMA and really to understand ALL i have read and ALL the advice i have so kindly been given...

this whole matter is NOT EASY...no matter how you look at it and when it takes a hold so strongly, it isnt easy to break free from it.

I MUST keep the PMA, be in touch with MYSELF! I have found me again!!!! yeah!!!

Do I want my h to return? yes...

will all of the begging. pleading reasoning and demanding work?? NO!

for those who dont know my sitch...it has been a VERY LONG 8 months since he left. I have learned alot and i am still going...

most important thing for I have learned to do...reguardless of the sitch( NOTE: abuse of any kind voids this...)

Take care of yourself and your children...give your spouse the time and space they ask for...


Last edited by lost1234; 04/11/10 11:56 AM.
me 39
h 38
kids 9 and 6
h left 8/9/09
loving and devoted wife and mother
still going...10 months later...




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