And what on earth do you THINK your husband WILL do? If they aren't the same thing.. you need to backburner this fool.
Thanks for this mind bender. I think he would tell them to turn themselves in. I know what I would do if I was that parent. I know what you are getting at. It's about core values that you live by, no matter what. My H has some different values to me, but the revolve around love and relationships, not hit and runs!