Each person has to make this journey on its own pace... IMO
I will try again here..
If each person has to make this journey on there own pace, then there is no need for this site or need for counseling.
Just everybody not say anything because it means nothing if the BS is taking it at their own pace.
I find that view ridiculous...Just take things at your own pace means that nobody is needed to help and there is no sense in even trying....
That is silly.
Gucci, we really dont disagree that much, even though you called me silly AND ridiculous
Tell me something, how many times have you posted to people here, over and over again telling them what to do and how to act? How many times did you have to wait around UNTIL these posters could finally GET what you were saying? (dont lie, I have been reading you)
What we do here is give our knowledge, share our experiences and advise people that the best way we can. How and when they finally start to absorve what we are saying is not in our control. I am sorry, that's the way I see it and I see it all over the boards...
Just as Serenity ssaid, we could speak till we are blue, and they will do their own thing... Free will and all... pfff
What I got from this board, DBing etc etc, was and still is,how to take care myself and to get back my strength WHILE all the mess is still taking place. Which may have resulted to speeding up the process for my H, not me... K
