wow, I saw ex yesterday and did he look absolutely awful, a proper sad miserable old man, it was heart rendering to see him look like this, he was always so fresh faced and happy smiling go lucky sort of chap, oh dear. wifey was away for the weekend playing bingo with her buddies, ex had asked son to stay over seen as though hed be on his own, son didnt want to as he said if he does it this once he will be expected to do it when she is back, and son openly admitted that dad isnt like the man who lived with us and said he doesnt want to stay over because he doesnt belong at their home. Any how I was really shocked by how ex looked on picking son up yesterday to go for tea, as in the last few months he has been ok, yesterday we were back to no eye contact and very little conversation, son and I are going to the coast tomorrow with my parents and siblings, this is something ex used to enjoy. he again asked where we were going and how we were getting there, what dates we go and come back, he must of asked me the dates now at least 20 times no joking and still gets them wrong. so what can I say, it was a shock he looked a proper unhappy chappy and really down and distraught. not a nice site but not my problem, jollys here I come. x