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Each person has to make this journey on its own pace... IMO


I will try again here..

If each person has to make this journey on there own pace, then there is no need for this site or need for counseling.

Just everybody not say anything because it means nothing if the BS is taking it at their own pace.

I find that view ridiculous...Just take things at your own pace means that nobody is needed to help and there is no sense in even trying....

That is silly.