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Originally Posted By: Virtually_Handsome
focusing on your partner before you take care of yourself is probably not going to get you where you want to go.


I rest my case...

This is what I see on the boards recently...

I see people telling newbies that they need to basically bend over backwards to the spouse who is running away/cheating/ignoring etc...

Buy them flowers, show them you love them, buy cards, write them poems, don't forget their b-day or any holiday that happens during the sitch etc...

WTF is all I have...

Yes PLEASE reward them for CHEATING on you!

The first time I saw that, I almost fell out of my chair. crazy

May All Who Seek To Take My Life
Be Put To Shame And Confusion;
May All Who Desire My Ruin
Be Turned Back In Disgrace.
~Psalm 40:14~