It's so hard mb. Everyone keeps telling me that I have to focus on myself and stop thinking about H. It's true that being preoccupied with him robs me of the peace that I deserve. We just need to visualize that big red stop sign every time our minds go there, and I'm sure it's even worse when you have a confirmed OW sitch. hugs to you.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.