Ewwwwwwww.....she 'picked up' your H at her father's viewing??? How low class and telling THAT is.
As many have said in the past, the OW is usually the direct opposite of the LBS. The WAS usually picks up on people that are 'below' standards in morals and all things important to normal family life. That way, they can feel superior and they won't feel 'put down' like they thought they had been by their LBS (real or imagined).
You can't go back in time...so starting up with someone totally inappropriate in age but somehow tied to the part of their life they want to live (usually their 20s/30s) again.....sputters slowly to it's own death given time and a LBS who knows to detach, sit on the curb and watch. Isn't easy, takes loads of patience and time...but, it is interesting when it happens.
Women are angels. And when someone breaks our wings, we simply continue to fly...on a broomstick. We are flexible
