The h seems to be checking in with me more in the last two days. I've given up all pursuing/contact initiated by me. He always contacts via text and seems to get rather impatient if I don't respond quickly. Interesting that this rule only applies to him. Regardless, I am just sitting back doing my own thing and knowing that h can't control what stupid immature choices he might be making.
I've been reading "his needs,her needs". Great book so far. I really can see how my m could be better if and when my h decides to come home.... Lots of honest truth between men and women in this book.
M 35, husband 35 M 10 Limbo 9/2009-12/2010 he left for his moms and came home way to many times to count Home 12/2010-present