It's all about layering. She may not see everything you are doing, but it is always one or two small things that she will notice. This will lead to curiousity and she will look more closely. If interest grows, sh will peel off the layers and begin to notice more and more. If she does come back, it's the deeper layers that make the difference...so make sure you stick with the changes you make.
Formerly SGfan M:38 W:33 M:8 yrs T:10 yrs Bomb: Dec '08 Separated: 4/18/09 Divorce: 8/28/09 XW Affair began: April 08