I am also going thru the same issues with my kids. My H seems clueless, when it comes to how his behavior is affecting our kids. Our 3 yr old, somedays will talk to H on the phone and other days he wont. And after he talks to H or doesn't talk to him he gets all sad and depressed. My H will attempt to call maybe 2 or 3 days a week. My 3 yr old talks about his daddy constantly and it breaks my heart to hear it. Those are the days when I get very upset with my H for putting us thru this. Our 1 yr old, lights up when he hears my H voice on the phone. My H left when he was 6 mnths old.

I want more than anything to put my family back together. All kids deserve for their parents to be together, I just wish my husband could get his head out of the fog and realize that too.

Good luck to you!


XH 30
W 29
M 5/Together 9
2 boys ages 3 and 1
Bomb of OW 10/2009
Divorce final 7/2010
Now in limbo