we live in "the safest city in the nation" according to local stats. I lock my door and have an alarm system too...

If I had a baby I'd lock my doors too. If I had an ex h like yours--I'd bolt it twice. If my crazy ex also had a nutty MGF AND my ex also drank and drove and showed consistently poor judgement at others' expense AND had boundary issues, well then - I'd say someone who does not lock her doors with all that going on, is not putting her baby first AND also has some serious boundary issues.

Honey, he's such bad news. No more waiting for lightning to strike. How much time have you wasted on waiting for that to happen? It's as if you really believe no one else will want you but him, but if you act that way, you make it a self fulfilling prophecy. Know you deserve better. Raise the bar, don't lower it b/c your EX h will fall to the lowest level of behavior that gets accepted and he does it every time... You can change your life. Not his, YOURS....please. If not now, when?
j-


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change