CG, I think that the coparenting plan takes into account the children's emotional state and does involve addressing that to some extent. It's more than logistics I believe. But I don't know the details.
I totally agree that any perceived pressure on H's part would be a problem. OTOH, he will feel "guilted" by any expectation that he acknowledge/address the children's issues and I don't know how long I can let him off the hook of having to deal with that.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.