Waw and I have pretty much been texting and having fun through the day.
(30 mins convo)
I tell her I need to talk to her. I asked her what she's going to do. Her unemployment runs out soon and our life savings are taking a major hit.
At first she gets upset. stating I'm throwing stuff in her face. Nope I cut that off. I just stated talked about our savings and bills we have mounting and something has got to give. We both can't keep living like this .
I was calm and didn't argue. She tells me she's unhappy. So I asked her was all of this worth it? I 180 again instead of babying her I allow her to think on her own. She gets a little upset (i know it's at herself) and hangs up.
(20 mins convo)
She calls back about 20 minutes later. I state nothing. I say nothing. She talks calmly. Obviously she's crying. I dont think she thinks this "newfound so called happiness" is worth it anymore. She keeps saying what is she going to do.
She has no money. She has taken a major chunk out of the life savings cause I've had to help her. She barely has food.
She doesn't have any bus fare. she could have came to the house with me. My parents were discussing that a few weeks ago but now they're getting pissed about it. I dont know if that's an option anymore.
I think reality is setting in. Reality of how her newfound life isn't all it's cracked up to be. I wonder if she will continue to fall..
waw 36 (spiritual covenant and common law marriage)me 32 together 13 mos. Bomb dropped march 2nd 2010
children SD (8) S (10) S (3) need help from anyone with my sitch