The drinking worries me though Pass. For a few reasons.
1. Is he responsible enough to know not to drink and drive? He hasn't exactly been a beacon of accountability thus far... 2. When he's been drinking he's vulnerable and OW may phone him or he may more easily break down and call OW... is there someone WITH him when he's out drinking?
The drinking worries me as well. His father was an alcoholic. (and a cheater) He definitely has it in his genes. Usually he can control it, but when he's an alien, no, I saw him once drive when he couldn't even stand up straight, and several times he tried but I was able to get the keys first. I will never forget the time he was so drunk, I took the keys and he "opened" the door with air and then turned the ghost keys in his hand to start the car. Took me 15 minutes to get him OUT of the drivers seat and he thought he was driving home. I have alcoholism in my family also, so I make it a policy to NEVER drink and drive (not even one drink) - to RARELY drink to excess (usually a case of me not pacing myself by mistake) and never to drink when I'm upset... H usually is the same - he naturally regulates. Anyway, I'm concerned, but not enough just yet to do anything about it from an addiction standpoint. I have seen him here before and then just "stopped" with no problems.
The driving thing does worry me. If I say anything, he'll consider it controlling and more likely to do it more.
