Ohh and I want to add something, in the beginning we are ALL naive, hoping Dbing will help us "win". Slowly but surely, we do get the real picture, statistics or no statistics.
But "getting it" on our OWN time, is essential, that's why some people menaing well, that rush the LBS to the end being super realistic and sounding cruel, are often "attacked". Each person has to make this journey on its own pace... IMO
