Thanks for your thoughts. I have read much of DR. Gave W a copy, which I now know was probably a mistake. Not sure she will read it.

Pretty certain that she has decided on D. Undoubtedly freaked out by it. I am doing my best to GAL, and need to focus harder. One of our friends said, " what you have been doing is not working, so you have to do something else" Wish I knew what that was.

H 51, W 46
no kids
T 22 years
M 17 years
ILBNILWY 2/10
1st D talk 6/10
partial recovery
W files D 5/11
long distance separation 8/11
moving forward on D 10/11
legal separation complete 1/2012