OIN- I can remember being envious of your still having W at home...I also very much remember the behavior you're describing...very painful to deal w/.
Like Bond said- watch the pursuit and pressure. You need to be very one dimensional- like Mr Spock...no emotion...sucks b/c I know you feel more now than ever before, but thats what the sitch calls for.
She will rip at your heart and guts...
Validate what you can, get a good cry in in private and PMA!!
It gets easier when they are gone, but they are mostly gone when they leave...like mine- I am not a part of her life at all...sure it makes it easier- but I feel forgotten...
You are in the game and you obv care...if she's leaving- I say eff some of the hardass stuff- enjoy every minute you have w/ her, make sure its stress free and lots of laughs...
Exude love but not the kind that will turn her off...
Give her some awsome memories to draw from...she will remember them.
Thats just my advice...
no drama no sweat no pressure...just the OIN she fell in love w/- make her walk out on that guy, not the contolling busy and routine based guy we can become when we get comfortable...
