DQ,

If you do decide that you're done, I'd like to thank you for all your words and wisdom. Even in instances when they didn't apply to my situation, I found them insightful and compassionate. Thank you for sharing so deeply from your own experiences, for showing what is possible (sexually and emotionally) in a deeply committed relationship. I also appreciate your focus on helping people here to become their best selves. I hope you will continue to help people here, but if your time is done, I'm glad you (among many others) have left a legacy of useful tools here.