Thanks Eddy, I appreciate the comments, and I'm very glad that my story is helping you! There is so much that I've learned I'm very glad to have captured and articulated it here. It has been a hard time, but the rewards have been awesome - I'm glad to have been through the fire, my R and M is so much stronger and better now.
And for the ultimate closure to my story - as you all know, the big last issue with us was sex...
4 times in the past week... how's that for resurrecting your sex life? With both of us initiating different times, too - that nervousness is gone.
