You have a different situation. If she comes back and reattaches and becomes your wife again, I say go for it.
Oh, by the way - in my situation, my wife would need to CHANGE or drop some behaviors to stay with a man like myself. This isn't definately about me being the one to change.
If your wife keeps attaching and pulling away to your great pain, while expecting you to do a ton of changing while she keeps her ways that are hurtful to you - I'd say weigh it out, you may have to leave.
