Be done with it, you don't want to go there! Alcohol, pain and a need for validation make a lousy combo. What you saw last night is about as good as it gets. So have a drink with a buddy at a Sports Bar and stay away from the "singles" crap. I've yet to hear anything good come from making such outings routine. I've had a few friends who, post divorce, ended up with a new GAL activity called fatherhood with women they hardly knew because drunks somehow tend to forget to put on rubbers! Don't let this be YOU!