[ClingingToHope]

Part of my problem was I got way too active trying to build myself a new life and while adjusting to being newly single I may have burnt myself out! I was determined to re-build and was on a mission, now I've learned to mellow out a little and allow for down time...at least that's what I tell myself!

I followed a similar path. I joined a very large evangelical church and then did their divorce rebuilding classes. I started a second job that took up a lot of the weekends. The money was good. I was out of town, busy, and not feeling sorry for myself. In the winter, though, without the weekend gig I kind of became Jim Carry in "The Yes Man" accepting every invitation, going out whenever there was something going on.

That really put me in a financial bind so I'm looking for more "less expensive" things to do. Today, I just went bikeriding and I'm going to a "game night" tonight through a Meetup.com group. I'm nervous about it. I'm an extrovert and outgoing, but just driving to a house where I won't know anyone is a little weird.