How to approach W about OM

[OfficerInNeed]

DLS,
I appreciate your input and advice. Although I am being put through hell...part of me deserves and the other needs to endure it because I still want my W and I will do what ever it takes to reconcile.

I have backed off. I have not initiated any relationship talks with my W. I pretty much outlined in my last post what happened in the past 48hrs, and where it took a turn for the worse after I thought progress was being made.

Today, she came home from work. She was not in that bad of a mood. I made some food/lunch and she had some. She talked to me about something she read in the paper. We sat down and started to watch a movie. Then we watched another movie. The food upset her stomach so now she is laying down till it settles.

During the movies, as when we have watched other movies during the sitch, we shared a laugh. When I say "share a laugh" I mean we looked at each other in the eyes and started to smile/laugh. Feels good when that happens.