I am glad your S17 isn't feeling guilty, ACJ ---- pity his dad isn't feeling that way. He shouldn't be sleeping at night, the way he has treated his children. That poor baby! (Oh wait, he probably isn't sleeping at night with a small infant in the house.) I bet your X thought he had "outsmarted" you in some way. The laugh's on him because you have a clear conscience and your kids now. You did the right thing throughout, even when you were trying to reconcile. You showed your children that you tried everything you could to keep their family together. In other words, you can hold your head up, while he should hang his in shame. But, the MLCer (if that is what he has) never sees reality for what it is; rewriting history, laying blame where it doesn't belong, etc.
Your son is becoming an adult. It sure was nice of him to suggest the walk in the park without GF. Has he decided on what to do re studies? My son is 22yo and has just focused on welding as a career, even though he is very talented with computers and we hoped he would get an IT degree. But, welding it is, and perhaps that's a good idea because there are more jobs in the trades.
Take care.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
