My W feels "violated", but she was the one who told me the guy wanted to meet me, and she was the one who introduced me to him. That's fine, she can't help what she feels. I will tell her that I understand her feelings and will not reach out to anyone at her church again. If they would like to speak with me in the future, I'm going to ask that she be present as well.
If you haven't yet learned that she's a liar, what you wrote above is more proof of it.
I guess I'm confused. Are you saying you think she's lying about feeling "violated"?
WAW Using God Me-43 W-40 M-14 S-11 S-9 D-7 EABomb 5/09 Separated 12/09
