RW, I am with you about the OW. I figured it bothers me I dont know what she is up to. I wish she is dating so she wont be messing with my H and that H finds out so that he can see their "true love" was nothing but excitement and lust... (wishful thinking). Dont have anything to advise you, only ... let's just dont let them have anymore control over our lives than they already had. K
