Well after poking his nose out of the tunnel for further and longer than previously he is slipping back.

His spending has increased significantly since living with OW. He is shopping in food shops that he can't afford to and I would never dream of going near. He has also bought some hormonal compound to prevent aging. So the Hokey Kokey continues as replay comes to the for again.

He has withdrawn back into the tunnel as I think he has spooked himself. Telephone calls every day for 10 days and texts daily for another week before that. Nothing today.

This makes it easier for me to detach and carry on with my life for me. All this touch and going makes me uneasy with regard to cake eating.