WhatNow - thank you for the website info. I haven't had a lot of time to read it yet, but what I have has helped to understand my H. I always thought that this was maybe a MLC, and I'm starting to be convinced that is what it is.
Flowmom - Thank you for the book info, I love reading, so I will get it. I have one that I want to recommend to you. It's called "Falling apart in one piece, one optimist's journey through the hell of divorce" I just started reading it and I really like what I've read so far. Even though her marraige did not work out, she really explains all those initial emotions and trying to save her marriage.
I'm doing ok today. My D will be turning 10 tomorrow and we are having a party for her today, so I will be real busy. My H is out of town at a Nascar race, which I was supposed to go with him. I have been wondering the last couple of days who he took with him. And also mad that he is probably having so much fun without a care in the world.
Together 16 years Married 12 years Me 36 H 34 D9 & S6 Separated 12/3/09 Confirmed A 1/25/10 Exposed A 1/26/10 H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10