Hello all- sitting here at the airport waiting for my plane to Houston.
I had a short phone call with stbx yesterday morning. I was irritated that the CPA firm he hired a month ago to do our tax return still didn't have it done, and wouldn't before I left today, so they're gonna file an extension. Just great- I need those numbers to finish off S19's financial aid forms for next year's college.
I also mentioned to him that D17 was upset the other night. His response: "No she wasn't- she was just fine while she was here." WRONG RESPONSE, DOOFUS! She may have ACTED fine while talking to him, and keep in mind this child does not talk about her feelings much at all. I informed him that she had several questions for me after seeing him. Instead of arguing that she was fine, a better response from him would have been "Oh, really? I didn't get that impression- why do you say that?" That response would have indicated concern for D17, at least...
He is in that same fogged-out fantasy land that all the WAS's are in. That is more and more clear.