This is key to moving forward. Many people jump quickly into a new relationship without ever being on their own. Many of our spouses did that - hence their disinterest in coming back and WORKING on their marriage (a foreign concept to many). But when we truly become comfortable in our own skin, when we KNOW we will be ok on our own - that is the best. Then we are healthy again and will do better in a new R if and when that should happen.
