I'll try and give a quick update. I'm now not sure what I should be doing next. Any thoughts.

I was planning to expose to ILs but they know now because of the Monday night events. W has already twisted me into the crazy guy who recorded her conversations. I blew it a little by interrogating as W denied. The following night I reiterated my boundaries and W just denied some more.

I really don't know what to do next. I have to think something is still going on W is still holding her phone on her at all times and now hiding her laptop.

I asked her to leave but she won't and doesn't have to. I've done the separate finances.

I'm still focusing on GAL and spending time with D but I'm not sure how much longer this limbo can go on

Please feel free to weigh in or ask questions


M 40
W 39
D 4
M 5 years
Bomb dropped 08/09
In house separation