Mine too. If I hadn't said anything I would be typing this in an apartment ALONE right now.
Exposure to the OP spouse is also the strategy reccomended by Penny Tuppy who's a FT who SPECAILIZES in infidelity, she reccomends this to her clients all the time.
Where are you getting your statistics from 25MLC? What are you basing your position on that exposure doesn't have a positive impact?