new chapter with strange WAW

[futureunknown]

I think she wants to keep you hooked in--to keep you emotionally enmeshed.

I agree. I've been ignoring her. She's saying "Ok, try to ignore this!"

Good job with the offer of seeing the kids. Maybe getting the distance and starting the healing will allow you to be cordial without feeling like you are losing boundaries...

Thanks. Exactly! I wish she could understand that, but like I said, it's all about her, and it's all my fault.