Goodfight,
I can only tell you how I am personally feeling not what your H is feeling. Each one of us have a different outlook on our MLC, do it for different purposes and feel differently about it. I am a woman. A care taker. One who deeply cares about others before herself. I have ALWAYS thought about my H. I always wanted my H to reach out to me but when he did he was sniveling and that's not what I wanted/needed. I always wanted to contact him but just couldn't for a number of reasons. Right or wrong, they were MY reasons.

The veterens have given you excellent advice. Please, please take care of you first. You have all of my positive thoughts. Depression sucks.


Me: WAW/MLC 41
H: 42
M: 16 yr T: 20
Me: EA/PA started Sept 2008
D: Anytime, just need to sign papers
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1968939&page=1