Well, it sounds like everything is going forward as it should. I can't fathom how these people can walk away and leave us hanging and not take care of our needs with some support. It was like pulling teeth to get it out of my ex as well - even child support and I had 3! IDIOTS!
I went the mediated route too and I'm glad I did. It saves a lot of $ in court costs and usually you can reach a more personal agreement. It is difficult to sit there and negotiate with an alien but try to think of him as a business acquaintance - nothing more. The tough times were when I got emotional. It did no good - just prolonged things and cost more so I don't recommend it.
This is a very tough time but you WILL get through it. It sounds like you have a good attorney. That is crucial - that you have someone you trust working for you.
I know I sound a bit tough and unemotional but trust me - I was a whimpering mess when I went through it - no way around it - it is not easy. But when its done - you will move forward faster than you thought possible. And you will someday look back and wonder how you were ever married to him.
My life is so much better now. But I've had a lot longer to adjust to being divorced. It's not so bad.
